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Episode 92: Triggered by Love: Why Your Spouse Can’t Heal What They Didn’t Break

Debbie Caudle

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What if the argument you’re having isn’t really about what was said—but about what was never healed?

In this week’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, we’re exploring why conflict in marriage can awaken childhood wounds—and why your spouse isn’t the one who’s supposed to fix them.

You’ll learn:

  • Why small arguments can trigger big emotions
  • How to spot when your trauma is taking the wheel
  • Practical tools to respond with clarity instead of reactivity
  • The difference between being supported by your spouse and expecting them to carry your healing

This episode is your reminder that marriage doesn’t have to be a battlefield—and that deep healing begins when you stop assigning old pain to a new partner.

If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are “too much” or your reactions “don’t make sense,” this one’s for you.

👉 Start healing the root, not just the symptoms.
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