Episode 114: Lost in Translation

In Part One of this series, we explored mismatched libidos and how differences in sexual desire often carry deeper messages of rejection, pressure, and longing.

Now in Part Two, we’re turning to another subtle but powerful mismatch: love languages. You and your spouse may both want to love each other well—but if you’re speaking two different languages, the message may never land.

Through the story of Elena and Mark—and other real-life examples drawn from years of working with couples—we’ll look at how mismatched love languages create not just inconvenience, but disconnection. Words of affirmation versus acts of service. Quality time versus gifts. Physical touch versus daily responsibilities.

We’ll unpack how these mismatches sound inside the heart:

And more importantly, we’ll explore how learning to “translate” into your spouse’s language can shift the message from distance to connection, from frustration to trust.

Because love languages aren’t just about preference—they’re about presence. When you choose to love your spouse in their language, you’re saying:
 “I see you. I value you. You matter.”

This is Part Two in our three-part series on mismatches in marriage. Be sure to join us next time for Part Three, where we’ll tackle mismatched lifestyles and how to turn daily differences into balance instead of conflict.